A focused, one-on-one latch session for people who feel unsure, uncomfortable, or discouraged—so you can find a latch that feels doable, supportive, and just right, for you.
A focused, one-on-one latch session for people who feel unsure, uncomfortable, or discouraged—so you can find a latch that feels doable, supportive, and just right, for you.
When latching advice doesn’t fit your body, you’re not failing.
And it is absolutely not your fault.
The approach you've been shown just doesn't work - for your body.
When latching advice doesn’t fit your body, you’re not failing.
And it is absolutely not your fault, or something you are "doing wrong".
The approach you've been shown just isn't working - for your body.
Most latch advice is built around a single position and approach.
When it doesn’t work in your body, you’re encouraged to adjust yourself, push through discomfort, or force a position that never quite feels right.
What’s missing is support that shows you how to adapt latching to your body, instead of asking your body to adapt to the latch.
Feeding should feel supportive — not forced, uncomfortable, or awkward every single feed.
You were told to stroke your nipple down your baby’s mouth, then squish your breast into a 'sandwich' to get as much of it in their mouth as possible.
Now, you’re struggling to get your baby to open wide at all. Instead of a deep, comfortable latch, your baby’s sucking or slurping your nipple into their mouth—and even if you get past the pain, you’re stuck in an awkward position for the entire feed.
And let’s be honest—the forceful method you were taught never really felt right, and none of this feels even close to natural, and you are starting to dread feeding your baby.
Here's the secret you need to know: there’s just one key detail that your missing, and it changes everything.
Touching your baby’s lips with your nipple triggers their sucking reflex before they’ve been given the cue to open wide, and that turns the whole process into a struggle.
Imagine trying bite into a massive sandwich without opening your mouth first - awkward and messy, right?
Missing these key reflexes makes latching feel confusing and frustrating, leading to a painful, shallow latch. But what if you could tap into your baby’s natural instincts and quickly get the deep, comfortable latch you’ve been searching for, right away?
Most latch advice is built around a single position and approach.
When it doesn’t work in your body, you’re encouraged to adjust yourself, push through discomfort, or force a position that never quite feels right.
What’s missing is support that shows you how to adapt the latch to your body, rather than asking your body to adapt to the latch.
Respects Your Body
You should never feel forced into a position that doesn’t feel safe, comfortable, or sustainable for your body. Good latch support helps you learn how to find what works best for you.
Gives You Confidence
By understanding why what you were doing wasn’t working for your body — and what adjustments help — so things don’t fall apart when you’re home on your own.
And Feels Good, for Everyone.
Feeding your baby should be something you can genuinely enjoy — physically, because it doesn’t hurt, and emotionally, because you can be present instead of worrying about what you are (or aren’t) doing right.
Respects your body.
You should never feel forced into a position that doesn’t feel safe, comfortable, or sustainable for your body.
Good latch support helps you learn how to find what works best for you.
Builds your confidence.
By understanding why what you were doing wasn’t working for your body — and what adjustments help — so things don’t fall apart when you’re home on your own.
Feels good, for your baby and you.
Feeding your baby should be something you can genuinely enjoy — physically, because it feels good, and emotionally, because you can be present instead of worrying about what you are (or aren’t) doing right.
Choose a time that works for you and your baby, so we can work together during a real feed.
We’ll work together, in real time, to adapt the latch using your baby’s reflexes and your body — so feeding feels steadier, not forced.
After our session, you’ll receive a video replay you can come back to whenever you need.
Latch lesson lets you work around your baby's schedule, so you get help in a real feeding session, without the stress of leaving your home.
We’ll work together, in real time, to match your baby's reflexes with your body, so feeding makes sense, for you.
So you don't have to try to remember what you heard, or what you learned. You can see your own transformation, as often as you'd like.
And I’m on a mission to make latching easier for new parents — clearer, calmer, and more doable. I love the moment when a parent helps their baby latch comfortably and everything just… clicks. It feels like you can finally breathe.
I also know that latching doesn’t have to be a struggle. Most of the time, it doesn’t take big changes to make a huge difference — just small shifts that help latching work better for your baby and your body, no matter what it looks like.
I’m especially passionate about supporting families whose bodies are often underrepresented — and undersupported — in feeding advice. As someone who lives in a body like that myself, I understand how frustrating it can be to try to make “standard” guidance work when it clearly wasn’t made with you in mind.
And I’m here to help take the frustration and confusion out of feeding — because when feeding feels better, everything feels better.
And I’m on a mission to make latching easier for new parents — clearer, calmer, and more doable. I love the moment when a parent helps their baby latch comfortably and everything just… clicks. It feels like you can finally breathe.
I also know that latching doesn’t have to be a struggle. Most of the time, it doesn’t take big changes to make a huge difference — just small shifts that help latching work better for your baby and your body, no matter what it looks like.
I’m especially passionate about supporting families whose bodies are often underrepresented — and under-supported — in feeding advice. As someone who lives in a body like that myself, I understand how frustrating it can be to try to make “standard” guidance work when it clearly wasn’t made with you in mind.
And I’m here to help take the frustration and confusion out of feeding — because when feeding feels better, everything feels better.
Here's how we'll work together to make latching work better for you.
A quick peek inside a Reflexive™ Latching Tune-Up, to see how small adjustments and reflex-based guidance can transform a latch in real time.
30-Minute Private Latching Session
We’ll make real-time adjustments so the latch works better for your baby and your body right away.
A Personalized Session Summary
You’ll receive a short, clear summary of what we worked on and what to keep practicing.
A Downloadable Video Recording
If you’d like the session recorded, I’ll send you a private replay so you can come back to it anytime.
Have a quick peek inside.
And best of all? When you start tapping into your baby's innate reflexes, the change is instant. No waiting for things to get better. You'll get a consistently better latch, right away. And I'm so excited to show you how.
Reflexive Latching is my modern update to latching to help you understand how to tap into your baby's innate instincts and make feeding time an empowering, collaborative experience.
Easy, accessible, step-by-step instructions take the guesswork out of latching, making feeding sessions less stressful.
Supports your baby’s natural abilities and innate needs, with a non-forceful approach that feels good for both of you.
Can be easily modified to work for your baby and your body, so feeding is positive and empowering.
" I had already seen four lactation consultants and a speech-language pathologist (all in person). Within 20 minutes, Avery taught me a different way to latch and gave me the first pain-free latch I experienced in 7.5 weeks. "
" Avery is wonderful! I had my first baby this summer, and even with reading about breastfeeding and taking a class, I still needed help, and Avery was patient, knowledgeable, and extremely helpful. She explains things very well and is willing to help you until you find what works."
"The info is so unique. I have never learned latching this way, and FINALLY it makes sense. The techniques worked on my child immediately. I was baffled that he finally opened his mouth wide for me after weeks of us not getting close to a proper latch."
When the latch hurts or feels unpredictable, it’s hard to relax, hard to enjoy your baby, and hard to trust that things will actually get better.
You don’t need to keep guessing or doubting.
You need personalized support that shows you what to shift so your baby can use their reflexes with your body — not a diagram, not a “standard” position.
Because when feeding feels better, everything feels better.
Select the time that works for you, then complete checkout to schedule your private 30-minute Latching Lesson session.
Feeding your baby
can feel better.
Put an end to the worry, stress and second-guessing that comes from wondering what you are doing wrong, and start feeling confident because you know your latch is just right. For you.
You have questions, and maybe some doubt if this will work for you. Here's some answers for you.
No. A Latch Lesson focuses on how feeding feels and functions in your body.
We won’t cover full feeding plans, weight gain concerns, or medical assessments. If you need that level of support, I’ll help you figure out what makes sense next.
This session is about helping the latch feel steadier and more comfortable — and giving you the clarity to keep it working well at home.
Most feeding support starts with a position you’re supposed to fit into.
In a Latch Lesson, we do the opposite.
We look at how your baby is already trying to latch, how your body is built, and how your baby’s reflexes show up in real time. Then we make small, personalized adjustments that work with what’s already happening — instead of forcing a position that never quite feels right.
I’ll coach you step by step with suggestions, not mandates.
If something doesn’t feel good, we don’t push through it. We adjust, experiment, and try again until it does.
You’ll also learn what a functional latch actually looks and feels like on your body — what matters, what doesn’t, and how to tell when things are working so you’re not second-guessing yourself at every feed.
The goal isn’t just for feeding to work while I’m watching.
It’s for you to understand why it works — so you can keep it working at home, even when things change.
That does happen sometimes — and most parents are pretty good at choosing a time when their baby is likely to be feedable.
Often, we’re able to gently wake and settle your baby enough to participate. But if your baby truly isn’t ready to latch during the session, that’s okay. They’re the real boss here.
If that happens, we’ll simply reschedule and try again.
Yes — and for many families, virtual support works better than in-person visits.
Because you’re feeding in your own space, with your own setup, we’re working with what actually happens at home — not a version of feeding that only exists in an office.
I can see how your baby approaches the breast, how your body is positioned, how the latch forms and changes, and how your baby’s reflexes show up in real time. From there, I’ll guide small, specific adjustments you can feel and repeat yourself.
Virtual sessions also mean you are doing the hands-on work — not me. That’s what builds confidence and makes the changes stick long after our session ends.
If virtual support couldn’t help with latch issues, I wouldn’t offer it. I’ve seen it work — again and again — for families who thought nothing else would.
You don’t have to keep pushing through a latch that feels painful, awkward, or confusing — or trying to make your body fit an approach that doesn’t work for you. You can feel comfortable and confident feeding your baby.
Even with your body — just as it is.
You don’t have to keep pushing through a latch that feels painful, awkward, or confusing — or trying to make your body fit an approach that doesn’t work for you. You can feel comfortable and confident feeding your baby.
Even with your body — just as it is.
Feel Confident LatchingYou were told to stroke your nipple down your baby’s lips, squish your breast, and push it inside their mouth as soon as they open. Now, your baby won’t open wide, latching hurts, and you're stuck in an awkward position for every feed.
And let’s be honest—the method you were taught never felt quite right, did it? But there’s one key detail that’s been missing—and it changes everything.
Touching your baby’s lips with your nipple triggers their sucking reflex before they’ve had a chance to open wide.
You've been accidentally skipping over the cue that tells them to open wide.
It’s like trying to eat a massive sandwich without opening your mouth—awkward and messy, right? Missing this cue has made latching confusing and painful.
But when you tap into your baby’s natural instincts and give them that simple cue, you’ll get the deep, enjoyable and pain-free latch you’ve been searching for. And best of all? It happens right away.
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