A targeted, one-on-one latching session that walks you step-by-step through a Reflexive™ latch — so feeding feels clearer, calmer, and more comfortable right away.
Sometimes, a few small shifts is all you need to take the pain, confusion, and overwhelm out of feeding time — and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
You’ve watched the videos, taken the classes, and tried every suggestion — but your baby still isn’t getting a latch that feels right.
It's uncomfortable and nothing like what you imagined.
Maybe your baby won’t open wide, they slurp or pull your nipple into their mouth, the beginning of the feed really hurts, or it just doesn’t feel good in your body. You're not even sure if you’re doing any of it right.
Latching your baby shouldn't be this confusing.
You’ve watched the videos, taken the classes, and tried every suggestion — but your baby still isn’t getting a latch that feels right.
It's uncomfortable and nothing like what you imagined.
Maybe your baby won’t open wide...
they slurp your nipple into their mouth...
the initial latch hurts...
or it just doesn’t feel good in your body.
And you're not even sure if you’re doing any of it right.
Latching your baby shouldn't be this confusing. And it doesn’t have to stay this way.
It focuses on positions or tricks, but ignores the sequence of reflexes that actually make latching work.
When the approach doesn’t match your baby’s reflexes or your body's anatomy, the latch won’t feel deep, stable, or comfortable — no matter how hard you try.
And it’s not your fault.
You were told to stroke your nipple down your baby’s mouth, then squish your breast into a 'sandwich' to get as much of it in their mouth as possible.
Now, you’re struggling to get your baby to open wide at all. Instead of a deep, comfortable latch, your baby’s sucking or slurping your nipple into their mouth—and even if you get past the pain, you’re stuck in an awkward position for the entire feed.
And let’s be honest—the forceful method you were taught never really felt right, and none of this feels even close to natural, and you are starting to dread feeding your baby.
Here's the secret you need to know: there’s just one key detail that your missing, and it changes everything.
Touching your baby’s lips with your nipple triggers their sucking reflex before they’ve been given the cue to open wide, and that turns the whole process into a struggle.
Imagine trying bite into a massive sandwich without opening your mouth first - awkward and messy, right?
Missing these key reflexes makes latching feel confusing and frustrating, leading to a painful, shallow latch. But what if you could tap into your baby’s natural instincts and quickly get the deep, comfortable latch you’ve been searching for, right away?
It focuses on positions or tricks to make a baby latch, but ignores the sequence of reflexes that actually makes latching work — and the differences in our own bodies.
When the approach doesn’t match your baby’s reflexes or your own anatomy, the latch won’t feel deep, stable, or comfortable — no matter how hard you've tried.
The truth is that generic latching advice doesn't work for everyone.
You deserve a latching approach that actually works for your body.
Work with your baby’s reflexes.
Most latch struggles start when the wrong reflex fires first. During the Tune-Up, you'll learn how to use your baby’s natural cues to consistently get their best latch.
Make latching work with your body.
Whether you have larger breasts, a flat chest, nipples that angle differently, or a body that doesn’t match the “standard” positioning diagrams — we adjust the latch to you, not the other way around.
Get a better latch.
You’ll finally understand why the latch isn’t working — and what you can do to make it better.
Work with your baby’s reflexes.
Latch problems often happen when reflexes fire out of order. I’ll show you how to follow your baby’s natural cues so their latch feels deeper, more organized, and more predictable.
Make latching work with your body.
Whether you have larger breasts, a flat chest, nipples that angle differently, or a body that doesn’t work with the “standard” positions — you'll learn how to make latching work with you.
Feel like latching finally makes sense.
You’ll finally understand how to get your best latch — and when something isn’t working, you’ll know why and exactly how to fix it with confidence.
Find a time that works best for you and your baby.
For your private session and learn how to get your baby's latch.
Once we are done, I'll send you where you can get a video replay of our session, that you can watch as often as you need.
And find a time that works best for you and your baby.
For your private session and learn how to make latching work for you.
Once we are done, I'll send you where you can get a video replay of our session, that you can watch as often as you need.
A 30-minute private session laser-focused on helping to make sure you know how to get your baby's best latch, over and over again.
A quick peek inside a Reflexive™ Latching Tune-Up, to see how small adjustments and reflex-based guidance can transform a latch in real time.
A 30-minute private session laser-focused on helping to make sure you know how to get your baby's best latch, over and over again.
A quick peek inside a Reflexive™ Latching Tune-Up
And best of all? When you start tapping into your baby's innate reflexes, the change is instant. No waiting for things to get better. You'll get a consistently better latch, right away. And I'm so excited to show you how.
And I'm on a mission to make latching easier for new parents — clearer, calmer, and more doable. I love the moment when a parent helps their baby latch comfortably and everything just… clicks. It feels like you can finally breathe.
I also know that latching doesn’t have to be a struggle. Most of the time, it doesn’t take big changes to make a huge difference — just small shifts that help latching work better for your baby and your amazing body, no matter what it looks like.
After supporting hundreds of families, I’ve learned that when latching feels better, everything about having a new baby feels better.
I can’t wait to help your latch feel better too.
And I'm on a mission to make latching easier for new parents — clearer, calmer, and more doable. I love the moment when a parent helps their baby latch comfortably and everything just… clicks. It feels like you can finally breathe.
I also know that latching doesn’t have to be a struggle. Most of the time, it doesn’t take big changes to make a huge difference — just small shifts that help latching work better for your baby and your amazing body, no matter what it looks like.
After supporting hundreds of families, I’ve learned that when latching feels better, everything about having a new baby feels better.
I can’t wait to help your latch feel better too.
Reflexive Latching is my modern update to latching to help you understand how to tap into your baby's innate instincts and make feeding time an empowering, collaborative experience.
Easy, accessible, step-by-step instructions take the guesswork out of latching, making feeding sessions less stressful.
Supports your baby’s natural abilities and innate needs, with a non-forceful approach that feels good for both of you.
Can be easily modified to work for your baby and your body, so feeding is positive and empowering.
If your baby’s latch feels pinchy, painful throughout the feed, or pulls back to a shallow latch no matter what you do, the Reflexive™ Two-Week Turnaround is often the better fit.
It’s built for families who want deeper clarity, more hands-on guidance, or babies with more complex challenges that truly need more time and support to understand — and solve — what’s going on.
The Tune Up is really for problems that can be easily solved with one latching session. If you have a deeper issues want more hands-on support, The Reflexive™ Latching Two-Week Turnaround may be a better fit for your needs.
" I had already seen four lactation consultants and a speech-language pathologist (all in person). Within 20 minutes, Avery taught me a different way to latch and gave me the first pain-free latch I experienced in 7.5 weeks. "
" Avery is wonderful! I had my first baby this summer, and even with reading about breastfeeding and taking a class, I still needed help, and Avery was patient, knowledgeable, and extremely helpful. She explains things very well and is willing to help you until you find what works."
"The info is so unique. I have never learned latching this way, and FINALLY it makes sense. The techniques worked on my child immediately. I was baffled that he finally opened his mouth wide for me after weeks of us not getting close to a proper latch."
When the latch hurts or feels unpredictable, it’s hard to relax, hard to enjoy your baby, and hard to trust that things will actually get better.
You don’t need to keep guessing. A few clear, personalized adjustments can make feeding calmer and more predictable — for both of you.
Schedule your session today.
When the latch hurts or feels unpredictable, it’s hard to relax, hard to enjoy your baby, and hard to trust that things will actually get better.
You don’t need to keep guessing. A few clear, personalized adjustments can make feeding calmer and more predictable — for both of you.
Choose a time that works for you.
I’ve got you. Parents usually have a few things they want to check before booking — here are the ones I hear most often. And if you don’t see your question on this list, just send me an email so we can make sure the Two-Week Turnaround is the right fit for you.
The Reflexive™ Latching Tune Up is not a full lactation consultation — and it isn’t meant to replace one.
A full consult looks at feeding as a whole: intake, weight gain, milk supply, pumping, oral function, feeding patterns and latching. It includes a comprehensive assessment and a detailed care plan to support you and your baby from every angle.
The Reflexive™ Latching Tune Up has a different purpose.
It focuses on one thing: helping you and your baby get a more comfortable, effective latch using small, personalized adjustments you can use right away — and giving you the confidence of knowing you’re truly doing it right.
If you need broader feeding support, or your baby’s latch feels complicated, the Reflexive™ Latching Two-Week Turnaround will give you the deeper guidance and ongoing support you’re looking for.
In our session, we’ll look closely at how your baby latches and make a few focused, personalized, reflex-based adjustments that help everything feel calmer, deeper, and more comfortable — for your baby and your body.
If there’s a position that always feels awkward or hard, we’ll practice it together until it feels doable — even natural.
While your baby feeds, we’ll talk about what a “good latch” actually looks and feels like, the red and green flags to watch for, and when additional support might be helpful.
My goal is for you to leave the session with more clarity, more confidence, and the peace of mind that you know how to help your baby latch well.
It happens.
Most of the time, we can gently wake and settle your baby enough to participate. But if your baby truly isn’t able to latch during the session, that’s okay — they’re the real boss here.
I’ll simply move you to a new time so we can get the most out of your Tune-Up.
You don’t need to do anything special to prepare for this visit.
All you need is your baby, a hands-free way to position your camera so I can see the latch, and a screen we can talk through comfortably.
If someone can hold the camera for you, that works too — and you’re welcome to join with more than one device so you can have one camera on your latch and one you can watch during our session.
That’s truly it. No big setup, no pre-recorded videos, no special equipment. Just you, your baby, and clear, helpful support.
No, I don’t work directly with insurance.
If you have an HSA or FSA, you can often use those funds, as lactation education and feeding support are commonly eligible expenses. Some cards work at checkout, and if yours doesn’t, you can submit your receipt for possible reimbursement.
Once you register, you’re welcome to request a detailed receipt with everything your HSA/FSA plan typically needs. If you’d like to try submitting documentation to your insurance provider, I can also provide a simple, non-clinical superbill for a lactation class upon request.
Please note that I cannot guarantee any reimbursement of course fees.
You don’t have to keep pushing through a latch that feels painful, awkward, or confusing — hoping it will somehow get easier one day. And you definitely don’t need to wonder whether you were “cut out” for this.
You feel comfortable and confident latching your baby. Right now.
Turn Your Latch Around
You don’t have to keep pushing through a latch that feels painful, awkward, or confusing — hoping it will somehow get easier one day. And you definitely don’t need to wonder whether you were “cut out” for this.
You feel comfortable and confident latching your baby. Right now.
Tune Up Your LatchYou were told to stroke your nipple down your baby’s lips, squish your breast, and push it inside their mouth as soon as they open. Now, your baby won’t open wide, latching hurts, and you're stuck in an awkward position for every feed.
And let’s be honest—the method you were taught never felt quite right, did it? But there’s one key detail that’s been missing—and it changes everything.
Touching your baby’s lips with your nipple triggers their sucking reflex before they’ve had a chance to open wide.
You've been accidentally skipping over the cue that tells them to open wide.
It’s like trying to eat a massive sandwich without opening your mouth—awkward and messy, right? Missing this cue has made latching confusing and painful.
But when you tap into your baby’s natural instincts and give them that simple cue, you’ll get the deep, enjoyable and pain-free latch you’ve been searching for. And best of all? It happens right away.
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